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Date Posted: 11:09:51 02/13/01 Tue
Author: Romy
Subject: NEVER fall for the one's who are so fickle!
In reply to: Mystic 's message, "Hey Romy......." on 19:52:28 02/09/01 Fri

>remind me to never fall for the one's who are so
>fickle. Well, just last week Mike was head over heels
>in love with me again.....until this week. I wasn't at
>school for half of Monday and all of Tuesday, and it
>was all because I was so upset about my break-up with
>Mike and he even knew this was why I was gone. Anyway,
>when I come back on Wensday he already has another
>girl he is talking to.

WOW, wait...TALKING to a girl? was this just talking? coz you ain't got nothing to worry about if he ain't drooling all over her. IF he is, THEN you panick and never talk to him again.

> This is such a shock because
>just last week he wanted me again and he "loved" me
>and I was the "center of his universe". Hell! Just
>last week you would have thought he would die without
>me.

I take it you aren't back together. Anyway, I think you shouldn't take it to seriously next time he tells you his world evolves around you. And then don't take it to seriously either if he's talking to another girl!

> Anway this girl is a freshman and both me and Mike
>are juniors......oh well Mike couldn't do better than
>a freshman anyway.

You sound SO positive...IF he can't do better than a freshman, why do YOU want to be with him???

>I have heard this girl likes to
>come between people's relationships.....

S�me people...yeah they do exist. Dunno where's the kick in destroying relationships, but they apparently found it.

>trust me it
>has worked. We can barely stand eachother now....and
>he has had another girlfriend before during one of our
>earlier break-ups.....but at least then we were
>getting along. Aghhhhhh......when will I ever learn?
>Will it take me a lifetime to finally realize that no
>guy will ever be fully mature enough to handle
>anything this strong....well at such a young age at
>least. I gotsta go now.
>
>Blessed Be

Hon, I say: take some time apart from eachother, and REALLY apart. Don't call, don't come over, but do NOT ignore eachother either. Find out what it is that YOU want, and let him do the same. If necessary make an agreement that neither of you will date someone else in this time apart. It's very painful if one of you finds out that during that time apart that you've already been replaced (no personal experience, thank goddess).

Seems you both need time apart (awwww the clich�!) from eachother.

Why is it you can't stand eachother anyway?

Trust me on this: in the game of love you will never learn! J came talking to me yesterday during work...Can't help it, he just is cute as hell. damnit! there wasn't any thing awkward between us, I'm sooo relieved and happy about this!

Blessings to you!
Romy

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Replies:

Re: NEVER fall for the one's who are so fickle! -- Mystic, 23:02:18 03/02/01 Fri
- Listen up, girlfriend -- Romy, 12:22:23 03/04/01 Sun
  - Re: Thanks -- Mystic, 19:04:58 03/04/01 Sun
    - Good luck -- Romy, 04:17:23 03/05/01 Mon