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Date Posted: 15:21:52 12/23/00 Sat
Author: Romy
Subject: dating

Hey Mystic!

Sorry about the forum. But hey, now at least, all those so-called-true-christian-messages are gone too.
They are now trashing another wiccan message board I frequent.
Oh, and their message board got closed, but they've got a new one, it was something like voy.com/1180 or 1186 (I'm not sure, didn't think it was that interesting)

Something totally different though (sorry, need to rant): Why the hell did they make this dating-thing so damn complicated?
It's been a while since I've had a crush on someone. Until now, obviously. There's this guy I met at work, a few weeks ago. Cute guy, definately attractive. But it was nothing more than attraction. So I've been flirting with him for 4 or 5 weeks now [I flirt with about every guy I meet, just for fun, nothing more]. I only see him at work, where I work at the counter (just to get money to go to Australia), and he works ín the store. So he comes by to say hello about 10 times a day (seriously, and with lame excuses too). All very well, but yesterday I noticed I liked him more than just 'attraction', after he'd come to ask what time I got off, or something, and some customer (an old man, for god's sake) asked me 'if I was in love with the guy'... Um, well, yeah...And I'm tired of flirting, I want more. I LOVE flirting, as long as *I* am not in love, I get along great with guys, 'til I fall for them, then I usually go ga-ga near them...(so I stick to one-night-flings, that's safe).

So now it's What's next??? My last 'serious' boyfriend was about 3 years ago (so when I was about 13...), and well, my summerlove, well, he was the sweetest guy ever, but well, I wasn't exactly in love.

So I figure I keep on flirting, see if I can get the message thru (although...if even some stranger old man could figure it out...). But now everytime he comes at me, I go like "when the hell are you gonna ask me out on a date?" [and no, I do not dare asking him].

Anyway, just needed to get this out. Sorry if this totally does not interest you at all.

Love and Light,
Romy

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Replies:

Ugh! Dating can sure wreak havoc on one's nerves! -- Mystic, 15:52:26 12/24/00 Sun
- OH!!! I'm just so freaking out here -- Romy, 10:53:45 01/26/01 Fri
  - Well, at least it went smoothly -- Mystic, 08:48:01 01/28/01 Sun
    - BIG comfort.... -- Romy, 13:35:46 01/29/01 Mon
      - Friends in love........ -- Mystic, 08:34:15 02/03/01 Sat
        Re: Friends in love........ -- Romy, 13:22:31 02/04/01 Sun
        Re: Friends in love........ -- James Matthews, 19:51:40 06/15/03 Sun
        Re: Friends in love........ -- plagerism, 14:08:28 12/25/03 Thu

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>Hey Mystic! > >Sorry about the forum. But hey, now at least, all >those so-called-true-christian-messages are gone too. >They are now trashing another wiccan message board I >frequent. >Oh, and their message board got closed, but they've >got a new one, it was something like voy.com/1180 or >1186 (I'm not sure, didn't think it was that >interesting) > >Something totally different though (sorry, need to >rant): Why the hell did they make this dating-thing so >damn complicated? >It's been a while since I've had a crush on someone. >Until now, obviously. There's this guy I met at work, >a few weeks ago. Cute guy, definately attractive. But >it was nothing more than attraction. So I've been >flirting with him for 4 or 5 weeks now [I flirt with >about every guy I meet, just for fun, nothing more]. I >only see him at work, where I work at the counter >(just to get money to go to Australia), and he works >ín the store. So he comes by to say hello about 10 >times a day (seriously, and with lame excuses too). >All very well, but yesterday I noticed I liked him >more than just 'attraction', after he'd come to ask >what time I got off, or something, and some customer >(an old man, for god's sake) asked me 'if I was in >love with the guy'... Um, well, yeah...And I'm tired >of flirting, I want more. I LOVE flirting, as long as >*I* am not in love, I get along great with guys, 'til >I fall for them, then I usually go ga-ga near >them...(so I stick to one-night-flings, that's safe). > >So now it's What's next??? My last 'serious' boyfriend >was about 3 years ago (so when I was about 13...), and >well, my summerlove, well, he was the sweetest guy >ever, but well, I wasn't exactly in love. > >So I figure I keep on flirting, see if I can get the >message thru (although...if even some stranger old man >could figure it out...). But now everytime he comes at >me, I go like "when the hell are you gonna ask me out >on a date?" [and no, I do not dare asking him]. > >Anyway, just needed to get this out. Sorry if this >totally does not interest you at all. > >Love and Light, >Romy
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