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Date Posted: 23:29:35 09/09/05 Fri
Author: ashley
Subject: Re: To Ray`s Daughter
In reply to: Judith Castelo 's message, "To Ray`s Daughter" on 21:12:38 06/05/05 Sun

My mother is the most selfless person I have known which is the characteristic I find most admirable about her. Her decision to guide my life the way she chose was for the protection and normalcy for me and my life. No child can understand, and either can I completly now at 21, why their father becomes a missing link in their life and why.

I found about this other life and it was hard to swallow. I have an incredible life with incredible family and there was a lot of emotions that I felt, feel and wanted to deal with in my own way.

I am sorry if this is offensive as you believe I didn't choose to "not bother" to stretch my family and make contact but my life has been so blessed and I was comfortable and happy with the way I was. It was not a decision to be rude or snub Amy, but more at the pace that will keep me comfortable. I will know when things in my life should change. At the moment, they are not, and I feel that at 21, this is my decision.
I hope you can find peace with that answer as that comes from my heart.

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