Re: All about Ray Gillen... -- Sleaze Roxx

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Date Posted: 01:39:51 12/27/13 Fri
Author: his lady friend from london
Subject: Re: All about Ray Gillen...

>I seriously doubt Ray abused drugs; somehow that just
>doesn't fit--tho very little of the man's real and
>private life is known. I've tried to find info on him
>online, but even when people are asked about him in
>interviews, no one says much except "great guy,"
>"phenomenal talent" or just "I knew him, RIP." I've
>never had so much difficulty finding information on
>someone before.
>
>Ray commented in a late-80s interview that while he
>drinks his share, he's not excessive and doesn't party
>because "I want to stay healthy" (he was dead about 5
>years later). Glenn Hughes has said that Ray was in
>serious denial about his disease and would always tell
>him he didn't have it, he said they both watched the
>tribute to Freddie Mercury together and Ray told him
>again he didn't have AIDS. Hughes said Ray once showed
>him bloodwork to prove it, only later Glenn found out
>it was actually Ray's brother's-in-law--not Ray's.
>Even Ray's mom denied it was AIDS.
>
>I do think it's short-sighted to presume he may have
>been gay or a drug user to contract it. While men are
>less likely to contract AIDS from a woman than they
>are to transmit it to either sex, it is entirely
>possible. Ray was gorgeous, charismatic and gifted. I
>have no doubt he had his pick of ladies. He may have
>experimented sexually, been promiscuous or tried drugs
>in his younger days and contracted it, long before
>anyone even knew what AIDS was. He could have had a
>blood transfusion and gotten it. He could have been
>bisexual. No one's talking, so we may never know.
>
>If Ray was in such denial about his disease, as all
>reports seem to suggest (Glenn commented that Ray
>"left a lot of unanswered questions for people," and
>also mentioned that Ray and his girlfriend would visit
>Glenn's house before Ray died--you have to wonder if
>Ray transmitted the disease to anyone else. Badlands
>saw their share of groupies. Someone had suggested he
>dated the chick Susie Owens from the "Winter's Call"
>video; she was a Playmate and he was a rock star, so
>you can assume that if it's true, they slept together.
>He also has a daughter, Ashley, who'd probably be
>about... 20 now I guess. I get the impression he
>contracted the disease after her birth.
>
>That's about all I know and there aren't any answers,
>but I hope some of that helps a little with all the
>Ray questions on the board.
>
>Blu

...............................

I dated him very briefly in London in 1987.
I was shocked to find out he was dead 6 years later from aids.
I was young and foolish at the time and did not protect myself.
He was not HIV at the time I dated him... as I am NOT HIV.
... OR .....
if he was HIV at the time then I was not exposed to it.
It is scary to see how close I put myself in danger from dying too.
Unprotected sex is not worth it !!!
I still wonder today if he knew at the time that he was HIV positive
and just did not give a dam to tell me!

I ran into him again in 1990 on LA.
He was dating one of the other girls I worked with.
His hair was falling out and he look bad.
I wonder if he gave it to her?
I lost contact with her in 91 so I do not know if she got HIV from him.
I have read that he KNEW he was HIV POSITIVE and
still having sex with lots of ladies and NOT telling them he was HIV!

and that is BAD very BAD to do that to another person !!

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