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jeff-facilitator (in tears)
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Date Posted: 07:52:18 06/24/02 Mon
In reply to:
Curt
's message, "Sorry Ken" on 00:36:58 06/24/02 Mon
Thank you Curt and Ken, for sharing of yourselves, for having the courage to look at,in my judgement, a very big shadow wrapped around the two of you. You both can easily fall into old ways, it does take time but the biggest accomplishment for you both is awareness. I believe you will be more aware of the past hurt and anger, and when you begin to walk those same steps, you have a better chance of realizing what you are doing then make the decision to change.
Good work. I am proud of you both.
I want you both to know that as a facilitator, I am guilty of over protection, especially when we are all new at this. All of you may begin to feel irritated regarding my stepping in at times or feeling like I'm translating....its not to appear like the referee or that either of you are inept to communicate...I just want to be careful and I love you both and don't want the process to get out of hand and all hells breaks loose. Even if I have to clear....I may get stuck or not sure or feeling uneasy....I need a man to be able to reassure safety and trust. Thanks Ken for recognizes my receiving a few jabs, it can happen, especially when the feelings are strong and a man wants to let it all out. (I feel like I'm rambling as I sit here tearful after reading your last messages.)
So, to finalize and wrap up....Ken, do you feel complete? Are you clear wit Curt? Is there anything else you need to add? Most important - How do you feel now?
Curt - IF Ken is complete, do you still need to clear with Ken?
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