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Subject: Re: pendiam kepada peramah

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Nazliana (Nazliana)

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Date Posted: 01:37:27 01/16/07 Tue
In reply to: mya zahrah 's message, "pendiam kepada peramah" on 00:30:22 11/17/06 Fri

Adek yang manis,

Akak faham masaalah adek sebab akak juga menghadapi masaalah yang sama. Tapi akan percaya jika adek berusaha untuk ubah sikap pemalu dan pendiam tu lama kelamaan sikap tu berkurangan, malu itu baik cuma janganlah sampai malu tidak pada tempatnya dan menyusahkan.
Akak rasa Adek kena ubah corak pemikiran adek, cuba jangan terlalu memikirkan apa orang nak kata nanti tapi semamsa bersembang fikirkan apa yang adek nak sampaikan kepada mereka. Semasa bersembang tidak semestinya adek perlu berbual perkara2 happening, tunjukkan keprihatinan adek dan berbual seperti biasa macam adek berbual dengan ahli keluarga adek itu sudah memadai. Biarlah kita berbicara perkara2 yang bermanfaat jangan yang happenning tapi hanya membawa kepada sia2.
Jangan terlalu merendahkan diri sebab adek juga sama seperti mereka jika mereka boleh kenapa tidak adek kan. Biasakanlah diri adek bersosial dengan batas yang masih terpelihara. Akak doakan moga adek berjaya.

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Re: pendiam kepada peramah	illa_pinky (happy)	21:00:09 02/28/07 Wed