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Subject: Re: " he's not straight... "

Author:
Dr. syawal (jangan buat tindakan terburu-buru)

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Date Posted: 16:32:14 02/25/08 Mon
In reply to: nurul 's message, "" he's not straight... "" on 09:28:48 06/24/05 Fri

>assalamualaikum....
>
>lately i met one guy who is doing practicum kat tempat
>yang same ngan nurul. first time nurul kenal die, die
>nie baik, pandai amik hati orang, hormat orang tua la
>jugak.. tapi sometimes tu agak panas baran... and die
>nie manje sangat ngan kakak die..honestly i really
>admire n adore him. he's got his own charisma.. he's
>good in english.. n quite an excellent student i
>guess..he�s handsome too..
>
>even kitorang kenal tak lame... just about 8 week.
>tapi sepanjang 8 minggu tu die la yang sentiasa buat
>nurul semangat nak pegi praktikal... every morning
>before masuk office he'll call me just to say hello..
>n time die masuk pejabat... he'll smile at me.. since
>i was the youngest there so die rajin dok melayan
>karenah nurul tetiap hari..he told me quite a lot of
>thing bout himself. bout his dream, bout his friend,
>bout what he like n dislike.. a little bit bout his
>family.. n banyak la gak things yang we shared
>together..
>
>selama 8 minggu dok menatap muke die... then i realize
>that i'm so crazy over him.. n know we just finish our
>practicum.. actually we're from different U. so we
>dont know each other much..actually nurul tak tau ape
>tanggapan die pada nurul .. but nurul rase die tau
>yang nurul admire kat die...
>
>kebetulan pulak kawan baik nurul satu sekolah ngan
>this guy.. n i told her bout him..nak cerita pun susah
>so this were some of our conference :
>
>nurul : aku rase.... aku suke kat schoolmate ko tu
>la...
>
>my friend : erkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk
>my friend : no way!!!!
>
>nurul : even die nampak cam au au skit... tapi aku
>suke la kat die
>
>my friend : omigod...
>my friend : love is in the
>air............................
>
>nurul : serius nie
>
>my friend : ow ok..
>my friend : there's nothing i can do about it..
>
>nurul : 8 minggu buzz dok ngadap muke die.... cair
>aku...
>
>my friend : sbb tak kenal...
>my friend : what's more he was a senior
>my friend : tapi aku rase he's not a good guy..
>
>nurul : pulak tu die rajin dok melayan kerenah aku...
>
>my friend : patut laaa
>
>nurul : loh nape ko cakap cam gitu... teruk ker die
>
>my friend : sbb die baik ngan ko
>my friend : hmmm dat case die baik laaa
>my friend : maybe korang bleh ngam kot
>
>nurul : entah la...
>nurul : tapi kan
>nurul : time praktikal ari tu... die sekali ngan
>member die... time g tengok wayang tu.. member die
>bawak awek.... awek die cun siot... seksi plak tu..
>body mantap giler...
>
>my friend : awek member die...
>
>nurul : so aku wat kesimpulan... dah awek kawan die
>cam gitu.. awek die mesti la lagi power...
>
>my friend : i dun think he has one
>my friend : duh..
>
>nurul : so aku rase taste die tinggi la
>
>my friend : ppl different..
>my friend : tak semestinya
>my friend : u're cute la ...
>
>nurul : yo lah tu...
>
>my friend : mmg banyak share things
>my friend : no wonder u re so crazy over him
>
>nurul_niesha: tak tau la
>
>my friend : adoi...........................
>my friend : r u sure/
>my friend : this isnt like u, man
>
>nurul : tu la .... aku pun tak tau...
>nurul : die ade tunjuk kat aku gamba member2 baik
>die... pompuan tu sume lawa2 siot...
>
>my friend : eleh.....
>my friend : member jek...
>
>nurul : mmg la sume dah ade pakwe... tapi tu la...
>lawa giler tu
>
>my friend : nothing more
>my friend : duh...
>my friend : xde kot..
>my friend : i think your fever towards him will heal
>my friend : after some time back to upm...
>my friend : trust me...
>
>nurul : erm... no komen la
>
>my friend : hehehehe
>my friend : ntah2....
>my friend : still fever....
>
>nurul : yang tu maybe
>nurul : tadi knape ko cakap he's not a good guy??
>nurul : u know anything bad bout him ker
>
>my friend : hmmmm not really...
>my friend : i'm sooo sorry to tell u this
>my friend : but i really think dat he's not
>straight...
>
>nurul : tak pe go on
>
>my friend : i mean, u know...
>my friend : he might have no feeling towards girls....
>my friend : i said maybe
>my friend : ii dunno him well enuff to judge him..
>my friend : and if i did wrong...
>my friend : habesss aku
>my friend : dose
>
>nurul : maksud ko he's maybe a gay??
>
>my friend : u know him well, rite?
>my friend : yeah...
>my friend : and yes again i said maybe
>my friend : u know him better
>
>nurul : actually... aku pun penah terpikir macam
>tu.... tapi.... entah la
>
>my friend : hmmmmm
>my friend : i dunno it too
>my friend : but back in skool
>my friend : he was so damn lembut and
>my friend : his frens also...
>my friend : just dun think much of it...
>my friend : i know how much that hurt...
>my friend : missing somebody
>
>nurul : entah la... i dont know much bout him.... u
>either....n the conclusion is...we dont know much bout
>him..
>
>my friend : hmmmm
>my friend : true do
>
>nurul : maybe ape yang ko cakap ade betul nyer kot...
>aku tak tau la..
>
>my friend : hmmm takpe...
>my friend : lame2 the feeling will fade away...
>
>nurul : n maybe coz i'm admiring him so aku buat tak
>nampak ape "masalah" die tu
>
>my friend : n you'll stop missing him...
>my friend : hmmm
>my friend : tapi tatau laaa
>my friend : about him being gay,is just part of our
>opinion
>my friend : ntah2 salah...
>my friend : tak baik, kan?
>
>nurul : yup....
>nurul : buzz... i think i better stop now...
>
>and after that i keep thinking bout what she had said
>to me.. he's maybe not a straight guy.. giler.. macam
>nak nangis jek mase tu.. nurul yakin yang kawan nurul
>takkan penah nak tipu nurul coz we'd shared a lot of
>things together.. we're like a twin sister..
>
>mmg time kat office dulu pun abang2 ngan kakak2 kat
>situ pelik cam ner nurul leh sangkut kat this
>guy..they all slalu suh nurul nilai this guy baik2.. n
>nurul tau ape maksud diorang.. n dekat friendster die
>pun ramai kawan2 die tu jenis yang 'lembut' ....tapi,
>i ignore it... for me he's normal..nurul cuba kuat kan
>hati.. anggap yang maybe he was changed...
>
>honestly... nurul mmg sayang kat this guy... we still
>contacting each other.. but everytime nurul ingat
>balik ape yang kawan nurul cakap... nurul rase sedih
>sangat... i really sayang him...
>
>tolong la.. what should I do now??
...........................................................................................................................Asssalamualikum nurul......saya harap awak tidak melakukan tindakan terburu-buru....
sebenarnya awk kena paham situasi kawam awk tu.....awk yakin ke dia memang gay atau sebaliknya.....
beginilah lah....banyak cara yang awk boleh tahu dia nie suka ngan awk @ sebaliknya///////////andai kata dia seorng yang gay......adakah awk nak meningglkan dia denga begitu saha.....tak de ke perasaan seber slah awk tnggalkan dia...kalau awk tahu dia gay awk spatutnya mendekaiti diri dengan dia....cuba awk selami perasssan dia....mungkin dia jadui mcm tu sebab pengalaman yg lepas....@mmg sifat smulajadi dia dari kecil lagi....awk kena ingat sbnrnya dia tak berslah ...mgkin dia terpengaruh dgn environment...awk berbincang dgn dia dari hati ke hati....apakah perassan dia terhadap awk...andai kata dia tak de perasssan dgn awk ...jgn segan silu untk nyatakan persaaan awk tu....mgkin di suka pada awk tapi dlm masa yg lain dia suka lelaki lain....sbnrnya dia suka pada awk cuma perassan dan emosi dia meniddakkan awk untk suka dia....awk tnya dia adakah dia akn hidup mjadi seoarang yg gay untk selamanya.....sbb itu awk kena amik perassan dia untuk suka pada awk...bkn suka pada lelaki lAIN .....awk boleh tanya pendapat org yang alim...dan bwk dia jumpa dgn kaunseling....awk kena myedarkan dia....sbb skrg dia bermmain dengan nafsu yg dia tak sedari....bykan berdoa....buat solat hajat mudah -mudahan dia berubah perangai...oknasihat saya jgn tinngalkan dia dan awk kena think positive ok....

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