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Date Posted: Mon August 18, 2003 11:28:05
Author: hello
Subject: 有幾多人用心去心去了解別人呢?
In reply to: 丞相 's message, "對對對" on Sat August 16, 2003 23:06:49

我已說過我多來這兒時有時會很影響我的情緒,當然這和我的情緒病有關,不是你們的問題,有時心理和情緒的問題是很難用理性去解釋的。就如這三年來,我發覺我每逢見到我某些家人時,我就會緊張和帶點恐懼,我很想克服這心理,但有時郤不能,有時當情況嚴重時,我會逃避回家,其實我很不喜歡自己會變成這樣,但有位姊妹對我說:「記著妳是個病人嘛!要接受自己會有這情況的,心理的問題是很難用理性解釋的,多倚靠主,有好轉時,就多些回家,當不能時,也不要太勉強自己。」那姊妹的丈夫曾有一段時間因為工作壓力患了精神病(或許是因為家族性遺傳,因他的兄弟姊妹,差不多每個都是如此的,甚至他一姊姊的所生的兩個兒子也是一樣,但除了信主那三個兄弟姊妹外,其餘的精神病都是嚴重到不能正常生活的。神確實是恩待了信靠祂的人。),看醫生也沒幫助,起初,她並不了解他,還覺得他很麻煩,又怕他因這病而不能工作而影響了家庭的經濟,兩個女兒不能繼續升學 (那時大女正在英國讀書,而現己大學畢業了),甚至心裡曾後悔為何會嫁給他,就在那時,她看到自己的心是那麼差,於是在神面前悔改,求神帶他們經過,她也嘗試去了解丈夫,並支持著他,三年後,見他也好轉起來了,環境依然一樣,但他心靈郤多了平安,能安睡,精神也康復。所以那姊妹對我的情況也很了解,也常為我祈禱,支持我,現在她全家要移民了,真有點捨得。
一個人的情緒不好而又不是自己能控制時,對己對人都是沒益處的,每個人要認識自己和自己的限制,如果發現有些事情對自己的情緒有壞影響的,逃避又有何不妥呢?當然,如果將來那樣事情已不再成為自己的難處時,自己也不需再逃避了。人的時間也有限,要分配和運用得更好為何不可呢?雖然,你們未必會明白,但只要我知道自己做什麼和為何會這樣做就夠了。

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  • 有幾多人用心去心去了解別人呢? -- hello, Mon August 18, 2003 11:28:26
  • 好好好 -- 丞相, Mon August 18, 2003 11:49:59

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