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Mallyn
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Date Posted: 17:17:24 10/14/02 Mon
In reply to:
Jen
's message, "Re: Hate BC? What's up with that forum?" on 15:08:08 10/14/02 Mon
>Her bfing was also an issue (she said she just didn't
>feel like it, though again, she actually ended up
>doing so for 11 mos), but it was a
>post-abortion-comment issue....in other words, after
>she'd spent all her goodwill. Plus, she was saying
>this stuff along with comments about needing to be
>pampered, get her nails done, that kind of
>thing....stuff that often doesn't go over well with
>other moms, kwim?
Aren't these things that a lot of moms feel at times when they're pregnant? I know I did. I only read from time to time so I'm not in the best position to evaluate. It just seems that if it's a journal about her feelings, there is bound to be some stuff in there that we feel but don't say out loud. If they kept those honest feelings out of the Journal, I think it would seem phoney.
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>But, bottom line, I think it was her comments about
>termination that started the fire.
Again, I know that I even had those nights when I worried so much about bringing a baby with serious problems into the world, and I had thoughts about termination if that were to happen. But if it came down to it, I would never be able to terminate. Not that a 6th finger is a major problem. Still, it's a thought, not an action.
JMO - a little dose of devil's advocacy
-Mallyn
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