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Date Posted: 09:41:41 12/31/04 Fri
Author: sargeant Ns
Subject: Re: I Need Help...
In reply to: Dio 's message, "Re: I Need Help..." on 14:58:38 12/30/04 Thu

Well, here is some of my thoughts (tactics I would say, must be the lately military training... q;) )

- Do something. Make the first move, do not take defensive positions but group up for an attack. This all means that do something. Don't just stay with the feeling "What should I do?" forever.

- Do something that you feel right. A war which is waged without sustainable ethics won't last long because of the pressure of own soldiers' ideology. "Is this war really for good?"

- Think and feel your feelings before you act. Only a fool attacks without plan. This means don't go ask her father's if you could marry her when you have such a rushing feeling. (But mb give her a call? etc.)

- Learn know her. Know your enemy. Is she your woman, or is there an other target which has resources, strategical importance or other important elements that you love.

- Every humanbeing makes mistakes. But that can be seen as a mistake, but also an event for learning.

- Like Dio mentioned, how does she feel you. And in my words, how does two of your act _together_, yours relationship develop, how do you spend time together, do you find a common and very own language between two of you. Also what does the enemy know about you and how the war between the opponents develops.

- And after all, the most important; Listen to your feelings. Do not follow any of these advices if you don't feel 'em right. And remember that this relationship isn't a war ;)


Here's some of my thoughts, hope they gave you some thoughts.

ps. I am looking forward reading Dio's "Women, and how to get one" article ;)

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