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Date Posted: 04:43:22 01/27/04 Tue
Author: bren
Subject: genna
In reply to: Genna 's message, "That's terrible advice." on 21:30:07 01/26/04 Mon

Please tell me you are not surprised at Blades advice, the guy fantasizes about lesbians! Anyway you are in an unusual situation and to give the best advice I would need more information. But here goes anyway:- firstly is your friend really a lesbian by that I mean has she been open about her gender preference? Because if she has never shown any signs of lesbianism before it could be that she just admires you and is misplacing her feelings, Which brings me to another point is the school that you attend an all girls school? If it is it is quite common for girls to be attracted to other girls due to the lack of boys. You really are not obligated to respond to this girls advances but if you are uncomfortable at the situation you should sit down with this girl and explain as nicely as possible that you are really flattered that she admires you but you can not return the feelings due to the fact that your preference is boys. Now it could also be that this girl thinks that she is in love with you due to a lack of self esteem on her part. From what I know of you, you are extremely talented her attraction to you could be that of the same attraction we feel toward's movie stars. Anyway you don't need to mention anything about your religious beliefs, you don't want to use God as an excuse. Anyway this is my advice to you. I do need more information though. Good luck!

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