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Date Posted: 09:40:13 02/06/04 Fri
Author: Chel
Subject: Got a really curly one for you guys

Okay here goes.

Last month my partner and I were let down by Ansell, the bloody thing broke right at that crutial moment, so off I go to the pharmacy to buy the morning after pill (you can get it over the counter here now, yay). However as my luck would have it, that didn't work either so this week I found out that I am 4 weeks pregnant. Do things just get better or what!!!!

After a lot of agonising, counselling, talking and meditation we have decided to have the baby. I totally support a womans right to choose and wouldn't judge a woman for the choice she makes, but for me personally abortion just goes against everything I believe in. My head tells me that I shouldn't have it, I can list a million reasons why I shouldn't, but my heart tells me the total opposite. This kid is determined to be born, there is something about it, it got through a condom and the morning after pill to be conceived so I believe the goddess has a plan for this one. So that decision being made we are both so happy and excited (haven't felt this good for such a long time) and I would love to share this with everyone, but I am having a really hard time with how people are going to react. I know that it is strange and weird to most of them and that I am going to be judged harsly for this. I am not going to get any support from anywhere I don't think (except from Neil). It is going to seem stranger to everyone too as we have kept our relationship a secret for so long, I have only just told my kids about him so this is going to come out of left field. I haven't told them about the baby yet, I am dying to but I know they wouldn't be able to keep it to themselves. You guys are the only others I have told. We are going to start shopping around for a house in the next few weeks, need more room!!!

I know I shouldn't care about what others think, but this is really bugging me. Lay some of your wisdom on me guys!!

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I dont think you want to know what i think (NT) -- Blade, 11:03:27 02/06/04 Fri
- Congratulations!!!!!!!!!! -- bren, 16:49:14 02/06/04 Fri
  - Thanks so much Bren -- Chel, 18:19:14 02/07/04 Sat
    - chel -- bren, 03:31:25 02/08/04 Sun
      - planning on keeping the baby a secret for ever are you? -- Blade, 23:46:18 02/08/04 Sun
        thats harsh! -- bren, 03:32:54 02/09/04 Mon
        It's okay -- Chel, 16:35:47 02/09/04 Mon
        I wish you the best....... -- bren, 18:25:12 02/09/04 Mon
        I'm not upset with you -- Blade, 14:56:52 02/11/04 Wed
        ummmm -- sharon, 17:39:14 02/12/04 Thu
        HI sharon!!! -- bren, 18:18:47 02/12/04 Thu
        thanks bren -- sharon, 06:10:33 02/13/04 Fri
        you want a bet? -- Chel, 15:30:17 02/13/04 Fri
        Many things to say... -- spags, 01:04:00 02/14/04 Sat
        hay spags -- bren, 06:11:24 02/14/04 Sat
Before I even read any of the other posts.. -- Genna, 18:52:55 02/12/04 Thu
- good point -- sharon, 06:12:29 02/13/04 Fri
  - Why are you sad, SHaron? -- Genna, 18:15:23 02/13/04 Fri
    - hahah -- spags, 05:36:38 02/14/04 Sat
      - This is probably just me -- Blade, 02:43:04 02/15/04 Sun
        that's because were all girls!!!!! -- bren, 17:17:58 02/15/04 Sun
        spose -- Blade, 19:44:36 02/15/04 Sun
        you would hate it.... -- bren, 10:31:15 02/16/04 Mon
        SO true -- Genna, 18:34:24 02/16/04 Mon
        hahahaha -- sharon, 15:44:15 02/18/04 Wed