VoyForums
[ Show ]
Support VoyForums
[ Shrink ]
VoyForums Announcement: Programming and providing support for this service has been a labor of love since 1997. We are one of the few services online who values our users' privacy, and have never sold your information. We have even fought hard to defend your privacy in legal cases; however, we've done it with almost no financial support -- paying out of pocket to continue providing the service. Due to the issues imposed on us by advertisers, we also stopped hosting most ads on the forums many years ago. We hope you appreciate our efforts.

Show your support by donating any amount. (Note: We are still technically a for-profit company, so your contribution is not tax-deductible.) PayPal Acct: Feedback:

Donate to VoyForums (PayPal):

[ Login ] [ Contact Forum Admin ] [ Main index ] [ Post a new message ] [ Search | Check update time | Archives: 1, 2, [3], 4 ]

[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

Date Posted: 18:04:28 04/07/03 Mon
Author: Mark
Subject: Re: 感激
In reply to: 亞黎 's message, "感激" on 15:49:29 04/07/03 Mon

亞黎:

唔好咁樣講. 我都係做番我既本份. 教導下一代係我地既職責. 做得團長就有這個責任. 我今日做既一切, 都係為班仔女好. 希望以身作則, 等班仔女再教導下一代, 令到童軍精神不死. 一代傳一代.

如今身為一個領袖, 日常工作已經夠辛苦, 要睇住咁多個仔女, 仲要睇埋個旅長面色. 真係好辛苦, 如果加埋班仔女唔聽話, 我會選擇一走了之再由頭重新開始.

不過, 我始終都想明白上一代既門戶之見和我旅長既心態.

無私既付出, 不問結果既耕宏, 換來只有幾句冷言冷語, 說我什麼都不是. 一切一切既不快. 可能會令我更有決心向外跑一次. 如今的我真的十分感到無奈.

我希望明天會更好.

[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

Replies:

[> [> Re: 感激 -- 亞黎, 12:09:46 04/08/03 Tue

有時候我們要放下執著，如果當初我依然執著唔放棄VENTURE團，又怎會有今天，所謂盛極而衰，任何旅團都必會經歷這鐵一般的事實。
當您在那裡找到快樂就跑到那裡，良禽擇睦而棲。
我並不是鼓勵閣下離開您的旅團，何況這會是一個艱苦的決定，人非草木或多或少都有點感情。旅團內政一塌糊塗的例子比比皆是，就在下所遇已經不少，可能各家有本難念的經。
團長這個位的確難做，係一個黑鍋位，成功係細路失敗係團長，所以有好多團長的位是空置的，那裡有人去坐，我相信少一點自信少一點領導能力都死無葬身之地，如果閣下可以和您的旅長好好的溝通或者就可以解決部份問題，起碼您可以常常見到旅長，我見到旅長的機會太少，這兩年不足十次，如果沒有大日子優想見他一面。
我想團結我的旅團，但阻力不少，他們〈其他領袖〉跟本未有接受童軍運動，他們就似是〈北七〉網頁所講的，他們只是穿上制服的人，一點也不依童軍規範，也許他們已經努力，但一切都是陶然的，因為童軍不是他們的興趣也不是一份義務工作，而是因保持自己的飯碗而勉強出任，就因這種關係他們完全不開心，雖然工作認真但總帶點商業味道，商業領袖是我強加在他們身上的名稱，這並不是我對他們的不滿而是我對他們的祈望，祈望有一天他們真的明白到童軍活動是須要一群怎樣的領袖。我團有一位副團她的集會出席率是0%，我可以怎麼辦，就算她有72變的本令也用不著，何況沒有。


[ Edit | View ]

[> [> [> Re: 感激 -- Lap, 18:58:00 04/08/03 Tue

Sorry to use English, as the Chinese input system of my computer at office is not working.

It is really tempting to write something here, as I assume all of us have the same experience.

We all have hard time. What makes me to stay here is the smiles, the innocent smiles I can see every Saturday. That's what I call "chicken soup for soul".

Man, it is life !


[ Edit | View ]

[> [> [> Re: 感激 -- Mark, 12:25:49 04/09/03 Wed

亞黎:

我真係希望我個旅長唔好再理我咁多團務, 我有我一套管理團務既方式. 既然暫時都係得我一個睇住個團. 我都會努力一點去完成我既責任.

近日, 我自己想了很多有關既 topic. 明白到有些簡單既團務, 都係可以再下降至隊長去完成. 再慢慢地將一點點既新團員既訓練工作交給隊長去辦. 而自己可以專心一點去完成團行政既工作.

Empowerment 看似都係我既其中一個解決方法. 我都係時候要開開團內領袖和隊長會議去討論討論

Mark


[ Edit | View ]


[ Contact Forum Admin ]

Forum timezone: GMT+7
VF Version: 3.00b, ConfDB:
Before posting please read our privacy policy.
VoyForums(tm) is a Free Service from Voyager Info-Systems.
Copyright © 1998-2019 Voyager Info-Systems. All Rights Reserved.