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Subject: ooohhh I am so angry


Author:
Heather
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Date Posted: 15:36:55 02/21/06 Tue
 I am so mad right now. I received a call today from Bernie telling me that Spencer asked that he call me and give me his new cell phone number in case of an emergency. What the??? When has he been there for anything let alone an emergency? I wouldn't call him anyways, I've learned that he is not dependable. I would call my family. So I sent this email to him and Bernie and in the subject line this is what it said: It's time

I'm going to try to tell you this as best as I can.

I am tired of your head games. I do not need your phone number for emergencies. You haven't been here for most everything including emergencies. If and when you decide the time is right for you to become a father, please take me to court. You and I obviously cannot work together on this and I do not think it is fair to put Bernie in the middle. Please do not have him do your dirty work. He still doesn't know that you are a manipulator. I do. This is just a game to you like it always has been. The two weeks have passed since we spoke and I know better than anyone that this is your cycle. The 2 week thing has always been your cycle. Your son is just fine in my care as he always has been. You need to focus on yourself like you said, but instead you are trying to get laid and meet other women. Yes I know about the girl you are talking to. (Hope Friday was fun with her) I don't want to know these things but information finds me. I wish you the best in finding love since I am not the one, so please be courteous to me and my family and stop with the games. If you really want to be Spencer's dad, you will one day find the way to do it. Until then, leave us to live our lives, as I am leaving you to live yours.

With all my sincerity,
Heather

So that should take care of that. My anxiety came back and it wasn't even Spencer that I spoke to. I really don't want to know anything about him at this point. I know I have rights and I am taking them. I do not have to have any dealings with him and until a judge orders me to, then I will not. He is still an addict, and a user. I don't know if he will ever get clean and I am not going to continue to let his insanity rule my life or the life of my kids. I don't care if one is biologically his, he hasn't acted like it and neither has his family. I feel like I am angry this time, right at the right time. He is not going to mess with me and my kids' emotions. People from the outside may think I am too harsh, but I am not. He hasn't even tried to be a father. HE was only after me. All the lies and manipulation. GOd I want to warn every woman around, but I will leave it on God's hands. NO one deserves to be put through this.
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Re: ooohhh I am so angrySUSAN F17:02:31 02/23/06 Thu
Re: ooohhh I am so angryLori07:14:36 02/24/06 Fri

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