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Subject: Not sure......are they using again?


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Tiffany (?????)
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Date Posted: 18:24:43 10/30/07 Tue
 Hi, i am totally new to this site, but truly looking for some help. My brother is 30 years old and and had or still has a drug problem. 2 years ago he finally admitted that he had been experimenting and using drugs since high school. at one point even selling. Then 2 years ago his girlfriend/fiance gets pregnant....suddenly he is going to be clean, all seems well.

In recent months though things just aren[t adding up. He is lying again about dumb things, extrememly hostile and volatile, staying up to all hours, quite several jobs and now is not working (well supposedly for himself); when asked questions he becomes beligerent and hostile; says people owe him money but that he never loaned money (they why do they owe you)? recently his car was broken into but instead of calling the police he simply texted a few people demanding things be returned or he would "F" their lives up....

his fiance and child are upstairs, he stays downstairs. Everything in my gut tells me he is using again...things with him are just not right....he denies it, now because i confronted him he tried to tell me i would never see my niece again...the only manipulation he has over me....

my mother says she doesn[t have any proof and that he hasn't lost alot of weight....father says the same...fiance says she has no idea she doesn[t ask questions since he blows up when she does and tha he would be back having siezures if he was using again.

this week he had kidney stones....didn't filter them out so th drs could do a biopsy though???

any thoughts? he just seems withdrawn, paranoid, angry, violent....oh, he also threatened me when i brought up drugs to him...not normal behavior....

thoughts, please let me know
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Re: Not sure......are they using again?cindy06:43:16 10/31/07 Wed

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