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Subject: I thought the rollercoaster stopped....but


Author:
Heather
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Date Posted: 22:58:59 10/21/08 Tue

WOW. I am dealing with so much right now. I think I am overwhelmed and need to dig my way out of a hole or something.
I didn't ask for this. Spencer is behind bars and there is so many problems. What do I do?

This isn't supposed to be my problem. Right?
I've told Bernie to stay away from me and my family and get a restraining order against me. What?
Then Spencer's sister called today to introduce herself to me. 7 years old is how old my son is. Who is this sister all of a sudden? I was nice to her, but she pre judged me like I did something wrong or something to cause this.

He is playing the victim and I don't want any part of it.
Now they all want to come see my son and take me and him to see Spencer in prison. I said No to that of course, but am I wrong? Just because he is now crying for my son to his big sister, she feels sorry for him. I have decided to print some reading materials about addicts and give it to them so they know who they are dealing with and I am opting out of even talking to them about what happened. It causes anxiety still to this day.
I don't want them to come to my house either. I am actually kinda scared of my situation right now. They come from a different country and I just don't feel good about letting them come over to my home. I don't know them or what they are capable of doing. All I know is if they are anything like my ex........I'm just saying. I really don't want to deal with it at all and I don't think i should have to. Especially after all this time. Haven't we, especially my son, been put through enough?

Comments??? Advice?? Corrective criticism? lol

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Re: I thought the rollercoaster stopped....butHulalea14:46:49 10/24/08 Fri


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