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Subject: Re: This feeling is bad - Me too

Author:
Heather

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Date Posted: 15:28:46 01/22/07 Mon
In reply to: Shelly 's message, "Re: This feeling is bad - Me too" on 15:00:21 01/22/07 Mon

I say leave it up to her. Let her know that it is up to her and that you understand her feelings and stand by any decision she makes. Also let his family know once and for all your decision on the relationship between them and her. If they wish to pursue, maybe she will give them a piece of her mind and something can build from there. WHo knows.
And do these addicts know they are hurting the kids? I don't know if they really care who they hurt. I think knowing Spencer as an addict all these years and him being able to neglect and take our beautiful son fo granted proves to me he is on a different level when it comes to caring. He says he loves my son, but I don't see it and I am not going to look for it anymore. Cause it shouldnt have to be searched for.
By the way, I rec'd three letters from him today in the mail. One was telling me how very sorry he is for not being a real man and for leaving me and the kids. I am really sorry . Inside was a money order for $250.00. I guess when I talked to him the other night I made him feel bad. That is the only time he sends anything. This is twice in one year I got money from him. If he is consistent I think I will faint. But seeing a mediator of the court or the judge again is the only way I will deal with him ever again.
He also sent my son two letters that said your mom told me that when you call me you get upset that I can't pick you up and you give her a hard time. I want you to know that it is not her fault at all and that I am working on getting better and will soon be able to see you.
Inside each letter he gives my son a dollar cause I told him before that my son really liked that. Anyhow, I will not read the letters to my son but I will save them so if the need ever arises when he is old enough to understand, he can read them for himself and see either what his dad used to be, or what his dad still is at the time and the broken promises. Hopefully he gets better for reals and becomes a dad to our little boy.
Anyhow, the letter to me made me cry but like I was thinking, I love him for what I know he was and can be, but I love my son so much more and cannot and will not jeapordize our happiness for him ever again.

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Re: This feeling is bad - Me too	Shelly	18:43:45 01/22/07 Mon