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Subject: Re: This feeling is bad - Me too

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Shelly

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Date Posted: 18:43:45 01/22/07 Mon
In reply to: Heather 's message, "Re: This feeling is bad - Me too" on 15:28:46 01/22/07 Mon

Well, take the $ from Spencer and take a little out just for yourself and your kids to enjoy! I know you probably have bills to pay yadda yadda - but treat yourself and your sons to a night out to eat &/or a movie. You deserve it!!
As far as Spencer -just keep telling yourself that when/if he is ready, you will know. Until then -do not trust again. I know how easily it is to trust again as I did it and regret that I did. But, I'm smarter now -and so are you. I am lucky in one respect that my ex does not call, write, text, nadda to me or my daughter. He has fallen off the face of the earth in our world. That makes it a little easier for both of us to move onward. It would be much more difficult if I had to still deal with him and his issues on such a personal level. His best friend called me tonight -told me that he has not had any contact with any one of his friends. His BF said the obvious "If he wasn't doing something immoral or illegal, he would have surfaced by now out of bordom and wanting to hang with his buddies"
Here's something funny (not really, but we have to laugh sometimes at the addicts misguided thoughts): I was granted over $1000.00 per month in child support to begin 12/06. I got a check in the mail today from child support division for $100. This means that although my ex got all the paperwork stating how much he now owes, he is still just paying the amount that was decided 12 yrs ago. THAT'S how out of it he is!!! Crazy!!

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