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Subject: Re: susan

Author:
Heather

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Date Posted: 10:45:19 02/25/07 Sun
In reply to: Heather 's message, "susan" on 10:18:05 02/25/07 Sun

I just read the Helpful Tips again and he is either clean or just learned to manipulate people better than ever. But there is no mood swings so far which usually happen after the third day we see him. Prior to him seeing us last weekend, he was sending letters every week. He sent flowers to me for Valentines Day, he's been paying child support, he took us to the movies, he took us to eat breakfast last weekend, he calls me when he is at the store to see if I need anything. He helped me clean my house. He stopped by before going to work on Thursday to see us and to see if he can help with anything. And instead of me telling him what he can help with, he chose something and did it which was help our son complete his weekly homework and read with him. He also took us down to the beach and we hung out and watched the animals and the water. He has called everyday or he has been here. I think what really bothered me is he had a tooth ache really bad and he went to the dentist and without insurance it would cost lost of money so Bernie drove him to Mexico to get his back teeth pulled (Wisdom teeth. Bernie was going there anyways to get his medication for asthma. Anyhow, I panicked after not hearing from him, thinking that he was going to mexico to party and I sent him a text message with my assumptions of what he was doing and he wrote me back saying he just got two of his teeth pulled before I just to conclusions. I felt so stupid. I know it would have been better to keep my mouth shut and just live the way I do and if he fits in, he fits in, if he doesn't , he just doesn't. He was a little upset and I agree I was wrong, but I also agree that I have every right to feel that way. He knows this too, but I also understand that he was in alot of pain from his teeth. I had just went through something similiar three weeks ago and I was in alot of pain. And I had two boys I had no help with. I guess I just feel he should be here taking care of the kids whether he is in pain or not cause I had to. I know my feelings aren't wrong, but I also know that this needs time to re-develop if it is going develop. I am a rushed kind of woman and I don't know how to not be. Am i wrong? tell me your thoughts.

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: susan	SUSAN	08:35:26 02/26/07 Mon
Re: susan -- susan, 09:48:45 02/26/07 Mon