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Subject: Re: Our update

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Heather

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Date Posted: 13:21:52 10/03/06 Tue
In reply to: Hulalea 's message, "Our update" on 12:54:25 10/03/06 Tue

Wow Hula.....You have come a long way and you know how to handle this one. Remember you told me. I am hanging on, but you know same thing pretty much. I would love to stand by him through this, but my heart can't handle it. It isn't a happy feeling, it's a gut wrenching feeling. I guess because he is on the fence with really recovering. He isn't using but still can't give up the party and the single life. I'm ok with that, it hurts, but he cannot respect my decision to not sit and wait around for him to finish his partying. He actually asked me to marry him again last night. We are still married, ink isn't even dry on the divorce papers and the date hasn't even passed. He sayd he wants a fresh start but doesn't know how to do it. He expects me to tell him how to do it. I don't have the energy for that. I really did think we could be happy but it does take two, as you realize.
I'm sorry you are going through this with him, and I know how it feels to need to take a step back and look at the big picture alone. I do that quite frequently. I keep thinking I am done with this but reality is that I will have to deal with him for a very long time. It feels unfair and sometimes I just hope he gets it right and behaves like a normal person. He went to his families church on SUnday and you know how emotions can flow when you visit the church you grew up in. I'm hoping he continues to go. They have a strong belief in Jesus and keeping families together.
I will be praying for you and your family. Keep your head up and let Jesus take care of it. I know he works miracles because he has proven it.

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Re: Our update	SUSAN	15:52:22 10/04/06 Wed