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Subject: Re: I used the word NO

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Shelly

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Date Posted: 13:22:46 12/15/06 Fri
In reply to: Cindy 's message, "Re: I used the word NO" on 06:59:19 12/15/06 Fri

Heather, You did good by standing up to him and not allowing him to manipulate your emotions. I know how hard that is. My ex is soooo good at doing that and making me believe in him again and again -only to be dissappointed -and my daughter disappointed. Tell him what I told my ex: "Until you have a LONG STANDING" of recovery you can not have contact with your child(ren). LONG STANDING - two weeks is not that!! Stick to your guns. Also, Cindy is right, you need to move on...Believe me, I know that's easier said than done...but you have to do so. Go out with that hot guys again, give it a chance, live for you and your boys, not Spencer b/c he certainly has not been living for anyone other than himself!!
My daughter told me some things last night that made me upset all over again about how crappy it is that this man chose drugs over his family (I will be posting about it next as I feel I need to get it off my chest to move onward). Point being once you read it is: These addicts can really screw up a kid with their getting clean and making promises,then using again and disappearing from their lives over and over again. Don't let Spencer do that to your little ones. LONG STANDING OF RECOVERY!!

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Re: I used the word NO	Heather	18:49:15 12/15/06 Fri