Re: I used the word NO -- METH HELP FOR FAMILIES

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Subject: Re: I used the word NO

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Heather

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Date Posted: 19:26:03 12/15/06 Fri
In reply to: Cindy 's message, "Re: I used the word NO" on 06:59:19 12/15/06 Fri

Thanks Cindy. It's nice to also hear from an addict's point. Like Hula said, Gimme a break - two weeks! I know two weeks is big to an addict, but that's to one in true recovery. If he is in true recovery, time will tell, but it won't be telling me, cause I will not be watching. I am trying hard to let go and you know when time gets between us, all I do is forget about what he has done and start missing him. As far as I can see, he only cares for himself. I know it's hard to get off drugs but come on now, it can't be as difficult as he is making it.
My cousin told me last year, Heather move on without him, he is stupid, arrogant and definately not interested in being with his family and for that I think he is stupid. Any man should want to be with his beautiful wife and children. Spencer does not want that. My cousin was in rehab with him and my cousin is still clean and actually just moved his family back here from Colorado, started working in September or August and they just moved in to their very first apartment last weekend. He was scared but he did it, well they did it together. It is very beautiful to see them accomplish recovery and be a true family.
I guess I just expected that happy ending for the boys, me and Spencer.
I still need more time and I am sure I can get through it. Time has already made things much better. I actually am very happy most of the time. The holidays have proven to be really hard, but I am not giving up on my little family.
Thanks for your advice.
Heather

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