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Subject: Re: How to let go????

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Tammy

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Date Posted: 13:08:59 01/10/07 Wed
In reply to: Heather 's message, "Re: How to let go????" on 12:20:14 01/10/07 Wed

Thanks so much Heather, I did call the school and told them that I no longer want to know when she is gone or anything else that has to do with her. I think that made me feel better just taking that step. She will be 21 in June so this is her last chance at high school.

As far as the visitation goes, in order for her to sign the adoption papers we agreed to one hour unsupervised visit a week and this is to increase gradually until she gets one overnight visit a month. The way she has been doing though by telling Cerinaty that she can't call me mommy and that her last name is not the same as mine I have stopped the unsupervised and am there for every visit just so she can't say things to her. She has already threatened to take us to court for not letting her have the unsupervised so I am trying to keep it where if she does in fact take us to court we will be able to show the judge that we are not keeping Cerinaty away from her. Our judge that we had is really big on the kids having contact with their natural parents and we have had to be careful the whole time about this.

I wish I could get some solid proof that she is using then I could withhold visitation without any problems because the judge is also big on meth users and does not put up with their crap. As far as drug testing goes I think I am going to let her know that before we have any more unsupervised visits she is going to have to come up with a clean drug test and I am also going to make her sit down with Cerinaty and explain that it is okay for her to call me mom in front of her.

Speaking of the little devil, my daughter just called me at work and wanted to discuss the whole thing and has brought her brother into the middle of it. My son is the one that told me that she was yelling at Cerinaty about calling me mommy. I tell you she is so good at stirring up trouble so I am going to have a talk with my kids and let them know that they just need to stay away from her because she is just trying to make people mad at eachother. I wonder....do they ever quit thinking just of theirselves and how they can upset everyone else's lives????????

Thanks for listening,
Love ya
Tammy

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: How to let go????	Heather	14:11:19 01/10/07 Wed
Re: How to let go???? -- Tammy, 07:21:15 01/11/07 Thu Re: How to let go???? -- Heather, 08:54:55 01/11/07 Thu Re: How to let go???? -- Tammy, 12:09:48 01/11/07 Thu