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Subject: Re: Here I am w/the first start of 'mixed feelings'

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Cindi

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Date Posted: 21:04:11 07/05/06 Wed
In reply to: neverending 's message, "Re: Here I am w/the first start of 'mixed feelings'" on 08:20:37 07/05/06 Wed

It has been a while since I have written anything here, but I felt your pain. It has been more than a year since my husband left and the pain still creeps in occasionally. But I can tell you it gets better everyday. It took almost a year for me to realize it was my marriage I grieved not my husband. The person loved, always will, doesn't exist anymore. After all the lies, how could I ever feel the same, if he ever got clean. We are now divorced, and he has nothing to do with my kids. He gave my daughter staff from his sores everytime she went there. I have to say, I didn't think I would ever say this, but my life is great. Once I realized I deserved so much more I took my life back. I am happier than I have ever been. Have a great job, feel great, my kids get better every day. Even met a nice man I am trying to learn to trust again. I want to live, really live. Him leaving was the best thing he ever did for me. Not that I knew that at the time. I won't tell you it isn't hard at times, it is. But I am learning more about myself and my own strengths everyday. Give it time, you will heal. Be strong stick with your instincts. Good luck with your future, you are the only one that makes that decision. Your children learn from example.

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Re: Here I am w/the first start of 'mixed feelings'	Heather	11:29:04 07/06/06 Thu