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Subject: Re: Shelly- I know how you are feeling

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Heather

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Date Posted: 08:50:42 07/25/06 Tue
In reply to: Shelly 's message, "Re: Shelly- I know how you are feeling" on 18:30:21 07/24/06 Mon

Ya Shelly, I'm not over it completely either. I still think about it alot. It hurts, it gives me a stomach ache, it makes me cry. I just wish he would be a dad like I know he can be. But I have to stop thinking like that. I wonder when the next time he will call and ask to talk to my son or to see my son. I really don't know what to do at this point since he isn't using meth anymore, but he still acts like a jerk and like he doesn't care. It's not that I don't get it ,cause I do, but I still feel pain when I think that he will be missing his son if I don't let him see him. I still have to fill out the judges papers and I don't know what I need to put for visits. Do I just set visits and if he complies he complies if he doesn't he doesn;t? I know he needs counseling and parenting classes, do I ask for that. I think there should be mandatory drug testing, do I put that and if so I have to know where he should be going and when to test. It's just too much for one person to make these decisions. But I know it has to be done. Since he didn't answer the court papers, I have to make all the decisions. Yes I am in charge, but I wish it didn't have to be like that. I wish he could just step in and help me with some of the decisions. My mind is tired, my body is tired and my heart is hurting. I can't deal with him and he still blames me. He still thinks I am trying to control him. I wish he knew that was not my intentions by any means. But he cannot see that right now. And I must face that and go on and fill out those papers the way I feel God wants me to.
I can't wait to read what the counselor told you.
HEather

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: Shelly- I know how you are feeling	Hulalea	18:39:31 07/25/06 Tue
Re: Shelly- I know how you are feeling -- Heather, 09:33:05 07/26/06 Wed Re: Shelly- I know how you are feeling -- Hulalea, 16:16:20 07/26/06 Wed Re: Shelly- I know how you are feeling -- Heather, 09:19:14 07/27/06 Thu