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Subject: Re: Restraining order questions


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neverending
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Date Posted: 07:00:43 05/14/06 Sun
In reply to: Heather 's message, "Re: Restraining order questions" on 17:07:05 05/12/06 Fri

Heather, I don't have any experience with restraining orders, but it does sound to me, ESPecially in light of your calls to the PD and finding out records on him that you have a great shot, and I sure hope you get one. Get copies of it ALL. Get All that 411 you can! I do know (or have heard) that you need 'good' reason for a restraining order, and in my opinion you have plenty. Just bring it all to the judge. Another thing, do your damndnest to keep your emotions in check w/the judge. Keep your demenor in check, don't be a crybaby, kwim? Don't sound hateful, so to speak. Just keep your sound of resolve for the sanity and peace for you and your child's life that you both deserve and have every right to. I am so anxiously awaiting your post after your court date. I believe it's tomorrow? Can you get the police report stuff in time? If not, just make sure you let the judge know that there are things and you could not achieve the paperwork in time, but that if he has his court look it up for him, he will see.

How has your relationship been w/your MIL? If she hasn't seen your son in that amount of time, it sounds strained at best? What my point is here, is when this simmers down some, try to do your part to facilitate a grandma relationship w/your little guy or YOUR terms. If she goes nuts in her own right or whatever, then at least you had tried.
Good luck, girl. I'll be thinking of you.

-neverending

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