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Subject: re: going for adoption

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TR

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Date Posted: 08:48:01 03/27/06 Mon

Last time I posted my daughter was doing good. Well she still is, but we got word for our lawyer the other day that if we are going to go for adoption then we need to do it now. My husband and I are in agreement and we have decieded to go for adoption. I hate doing this but I know that it will be a long time before she is ready to raise a child. She has no home of her own and still continues to live from place to place. She is still in contact with the father of the child and he still does drugs from what I know. I don't think she is seeing him, just talking to him on the phone but for the past five years they have had a rollercoster relationship being back and forth with eachother every two to three months. It is a violent relationship and I am afraid that if we do not go for adoption then this little girl will be torn apart by them.
I know what we have to do, but I am afraid that it will cause her to relapse. Also, my lawyer told me that I could not tell her about it. I just think it would be better coming from me then having someone show up at her door with a paper. I hate this, I just wish that she could have gotten her life together so she could have supported her child. I hope she understands that we aren't doing this to hurt her but to make sure that her child has a secure future. Also I hope that she understands that she will always be a part of the childs life and that we will never keep her from seeing her as long as she is clean. I know that this is going to rip her heart out but I have to worry about taking care of my granddaughter. Thank you for letting me ramble on, hopefully she will stay clean through all of this.

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Replies:

Subject	Author	Date
Re: re: going for adoption	Melinda	09:26:27 03/27/06 Mon
Re: re: going for adoption -- TR, 08:16:12 03/28/06 Tue
Re: re: going for adoption	KIM	06:10:06 04/01/06 Sat
Re: re: going for adoption -- TR, 07:39:48 04/03/06 Mon
update on adoption	TR	07:45:28 04/03/06 Mon