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Subject: Re: HE IS KILLING ME

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Heather

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Date Posted: 09:49:38 03/31/06 Fri
In reply to: PLEASEHELP 's message, "Re: HE IS KILLING ME" on 20:24:54 03/30/06 Thu

Yes we do get crazy like them that is why it is important to step back and not be involved. It brings us down because we let them blame us, we let them tell us that we made them mad when in all reality they are just amking excuses to get away and use...It's not your fault and you should make it not your problem. Once you stand up for YOU, you will feel better and if these are the words you want to hear - He will feel sad that you left and that he can't see you or talk with you. It's called tough love and that is what it sometimes takes to get them back on their feet. He has you right now so he can do whatever cause he thinks youare there to stay, but if you prove to him that you are not going to stand for his bull, then you will be killing two birds with one stone - you will get better and he will miss the hell out of you and maybe decide to get straight. There's no promises but more then none - that's what it usually takes.

Good luck and get strong. Get mad if you need to, leave him to live the life he chooses and you live the life you choose, if he can catch up, wonderful - if not, you got away without getting harmed except maybe a crack in your heart that will heal in time.

Heather

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