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Subject: Re: husband uses

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momof2

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Date Posted: 21:18:56 04/02/06 Sun
In reply to: fortiesmom 's message, "husband uses" on 15:48:47 03/29/06 Wed

I went through the same thing with my ex-husband. He is my ex because he chose drugs over me and his two boys. He started the same thing of not coming home and always "helping" others. Of course he wasn't "helping" others, he was getting high. I didn't find out about the drugs until we had been married 4 years and had two little boys. I LEFT HIM, because I wasn't going to enable him anymore. I also wasn't going to put my kids in danger.

You probably don't want this answer but, I believe you should tell him to go to a real treatment, not outpatient. It doesn't work with this stuff. If he doesn't then you should tell him to leave. You are not doing him anygood by allowing him to have drugs and you.

My ex and I split 2 years ago in May, and he didn't even see his boys from Christmas of 04 until March of 06. He has now entered a 1 year rehab. He went in on Feb. 14 of this year and still has 10 months left to go. I truely believe that this is the difference for him. He went through the 30 day program 2 years ago and got high the day he got out. The difference is that he hit that low, and chose to go himself, he wasn't forced by me.

Good Luck and I hope that this helps, I will pray that you make the right decision...

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