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Subject: Re: re: angry at daughter Author: Melinda [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 13:14:56 04/03/06 Mon In reply to: TR 's message, "Re: re: angry at daughter" on 09:04:01 04/03/06 Mon Yes, I did get my kids back. But not until I proven myself again and again. When I first lost them, I wasn't even allowed to see them. I would sneak around the schools and that sort of thing to see them. I didn't have my kids for more than a year the last time, and about 6 months the time before. If she wants to see her kid, she need to get her life together. It took some time but the kids have now adjusted pretty well. I have had them now for more than a year, and aside from the usual struggles with kids. We seem to have an otherwise healthy relationship. They do know what happened when I wasn't around, because my family didn't lie for me. And we talk about it regularly. They worry as much as I do. But more importantly they know that what I am doing now is not only for them but most importantly for ME. Your daughter needs to be shown that this will not be tolerated on any level. I know that sounds mean and harsh, but it has passed the point of just her being affected by her choices. It is not only affected her daughter, but in turn it is also affecting you. You as the mother (grandmother) have rights too. ANd if you feel that she is not doing what she needs to be doing, then step in and let her know that she will not be allowed to do this anymore. The world of Meth is really ugly. But what happens that a Meth user knows about it 100 fold. What you are seeing is only surafce stuff, there is so much more to Meth than being careless. There is abuse, neglect, molestation, and on and on. I stayed in a relationship where I and my kids were abused (beaten like dogs) so I could be high. It is insanity!!! Only you know what is best for that baby. I hope that this doesn't scare you. That is not my intention. I hate to see so many children be left behind (including mine) because of Meth. They don't have a choice. God bless you. I pray that this will help you out in the choice that you need to make. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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Subject Author Date Re: re: angry at daughter TR 13:28:35 04/03/06 Mon Re: re: angry at daughter & TR -- SUSAN F, 17:31:16 04/03/06 Mon Re: re: angry at daughter & TR -- TR, 07:25:33 04/04/06 Tue Re: re: angry at daughter & thank you melinda SUSAN F 17:10:22 04/03/06 Mon