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Subject: Re: married (yet single) mother of three


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KIM
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Date Posted: 06:59:17 03/14/06 Tue
In reply to: joy 's message, "married (yet single) mother of three" on 19:02:29 03/11/06 Sat
 FIRST LET ME SAY THAT I TOO AM A MARRIED (NOW SINGLE) MOTHER OF TWO WHO WAS IN THE SAME SITUATION. AFTER BEING TOGETHER FOR 14 YEARS (MARRIED FOR THE LAST 2 YEARS) WE SPLIT A MONTH AGO. HOWEVER I TOO WAS A METH AND COCAINE USER. I HAVE BEEN OFF THE DRUGS FOR 6 WEEKS NOW. I KNOW I HAVE A LONG WAY TO GO BUT REGARDLESS OF WHAT PEOPLE TELL YOU IF YOU WANT TO STOP YOU CAN! MY HUSBAND IS STILL USING THE DRUGS AND MOVED IN WITH A NEW WOMAN RIGHT AWAY AFTER HE MOVED OUT (AND HE ONLY MET HER A WEEK BEFORE HE MOVED OUT) HOW IS THAT FOR A KICK IN THE TEETH. ALTHOUGH ALL THIS HURTS SOOOO VERY MUCH I KNOW THAT I AND MY CHILDREN ARE BETTER OFF! THE DRUGS TOOK A TOLL ON OUR RELATIONSHIP TOO! I AM VERY WORRIED ABOUT MY HUSBAND WHEN IN ALL REALITY I SHOULD KILL HIM (JOKE) BUT CRYSTAL IS VERY VERY DANGEROUS AS IS COCAINE BUT HAVING BEEN A USER OF BOTH (AND I WENT FROM COCAINE TO CRYSTAL - REPLACED 1 WITH THE OTHER) I THINK CRYSTAL IS ALOT WORSE AND IF NOT STOPPED I TRULY BELIEVE THAT IT WILL KILL YOU FAST! THERE IS NOTHING GOOD ABOUT THAT DRUG! MY ADVICE TO YOU ----GET OUT NOW---EVEN IF IT IS ONLY FOR THE MOMENT! TELL YOUR HUSBAND HOW YOU FEEL HOW YOU THINK IT IS DESTROYING YOUR FAMILY AND THAT YOU ARE WORRIED ABOUT HIS WELL BEING! BUT MOSTLY TELL HIM YOU AND THE KIDS DON'T WANT TO SIT AROUND ONLY TO WATCH HIM SLOWLY KILL HIMSELF! MY KIDS ARE 7 AND 5. THIS IS SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT - IF YOU DON'T LIKE SEEING HIM HIGH AND YOU ARE IRRATIBLE WHEN HE IS LOOK THROUGH THE EYES OF YOUR KIDS BECAUSE THEY TOO CAN SEE THAT "SOMETHING" IS NOT QUITE RIGHT WITH THEIR DAD AND THEY SEE MORE AND TRY TO FIGURE IT OUT MORE AS THEY GET OLDER. ONLY YOU CAN STOP THIS IF YOU LEAVE SUPPORT HIM IF HE CHOOSES TO GET HELP FOR HIMSELF BECAUSE ONLY HE CAN DO THAT YOU CAN'T MAKE HIM CLEAN UP HE HAS TO WANT TO GET HELP HIMSELF AND IT CAN BE DONE! MAYBE ONLY AFTER YOU LEAVE WILL HE THEN SEE THE LIGHT OF DAY! AND AS FOR YOU...AS HARD AS IT MAY SEEM YOU TOO CAN MAKE A GOOD LIFE FOR YOU AND YOUR KIDS ON YOUR OWN. ANOTHER PIECE OF ADVICE TO YOU-SPEAK UP AND TELL YOUR LOVED ONES IF YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND HAVE A GOOD FAMILY RELATIONSHIP (WITH PARENTS FRIEND ETC. THE PEOPLE THAT YOU AND HIM HAVE BEEN HIDING THIS FROM) AS HARD AS IT SOUNDS IT IS SUPRISING THE AMOUNT OF SUPPORT YOU WILL GET. YOUR HUSBAND MAY NOT LIKE IT THAT YOU TOLD PEOPLE BUT MAYBE DEEP DOWN HE HAS WANTED TO TELL SOMEONE TOO BUT IS AFRAID OF WHAT PEOPLE WILL THINK OF HIM AS A PERSON, HUSBAND BUT MOSTLY AS A FATHER. UNLESS YOU HAVE BEEN AN ADDICT YOU WILL NOT UNDERSTAND ANY OF THESE FEELINGS AND AS A PARENT SOME DAYS ARE REALLY BAD(THE THOUGHTS THAT YOU HAVE REGARDING YOUR OWN CHILDREN AND WHAT YOU ARE KNOWINGLY DOING TO THEM WHEN YOU ARE USING-REGRET) YOU NEVER KNOW IN THE END HE MAY THANK YOU FOR OPENING YOUR BIG MOUTH! WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO LOSE YOU ARE ALREADY WELL ON YOUR WAY TO LOSING YOUR HUSBAND AND BY THAT I MEAN DEATH! I DO NOT KNOW YOU BUT MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU! GOOD LUCK!!!

LIFE IS TODAY

LIFE IS TODAY-NOT TOMORROW.
THE TIME YOU MUST LIVE IS NOW.
DON'T WAIT FOR SOME FAR DISTANT FUTURE
WHEN ALL THINGS WILL BE RIGHT SOMEHOW.
THOUGH BUSY, TAKE TIME FOR THAT KIND DEED
THAT YOU PLAN FOR ANOTHER DAY,
FOR PERHAPS THERE WILL BE NO TOMORROW
WHEN YOU'LL PASS AGAIN THIS WAY.
THE BURDENS OF LIFE MAY BE HEAVY,
BUT DON'T LET THEM BLOCK YOUR VIEW.
DON'T WAIT FOR THEM ALL TO BE LIFTED
BEFORE COUNTING THE JOYS YOU HAVE TOO.
THE GOOD AND THE BAD MIXED TOGETHER
MUST BE PUT INTO PROPER PLACE.
WHETHER YOU FIND JOY OR SORROW,
YOU MUST STAND AND MEET LIFE FACE TO FACE.
SO LISTEN TO LAUGHTER OF CHILDREN,
STOP A MINUTE TO WATCH THEM AT PLAY,
GIVE A SMILE AND A KIND WORD TO SOMEONE
AND YOU'LL FIND IT WILL BRIGHTEN YOUR DAY.
BE AWARE OF EACH MOMENT'S SMALL PLEASURE,
THE LITTLE THINGS MAKE UP THE WHOLE.
FILL YOUR HOURS WITH BRIGHT SHINING MINUTES
AS YOU SEARCH FOR LIFE'S ULTIMATE GOAL.
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