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Subject: married (yet single) mother of three


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Date Posted: 19:02:29 03/11/06 Sat
 I am married to a meth addict. It is becoming more and more apparent that it is a major problem. I did not realize how serious it is. We have three children. 6 year old daughter, 4 year old son, and 3 month old baby girl. He left the hospital the day after I gave birth to our third to go get high. It is tearing our family apart. When he is using, I don't want him around me or the kids. When he is around after using, I am a totally different person. I can't stand to see him like that. I get irately mad. I remember myself as a nice person, but not anymore. I am always depressed, never want to do anything. it is not the kids fault. I know that I need to be strong for them, but it is hard sometimes. I've been lied to SO many times. I don't know if he does ever sober up if I can ever have the trust in our relationship again. I don't believe a word he says. How long should I put up with this? He seems to like the drug better than he does his family and he blames me for not helping enough. It seems like all I am ever trying to do is help him or i am questioning his every move. I've got three young children that I need to focus on. How much longer can this go on before I leave? Why am i still with him? How did it get this bad? I don't know what to do.
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Re: married (yet single) mother of threePLEASEHELP20:06:19 03/11/06 Sat
Re: married (yet single) mother of threekayla05:43:41 03/12/06 Sun
Re: married (yet single) mother of threeHeather19:29:09 03/12/06 Sun
Re: married (yet single) mother of threeKIM06:59:17 03/14/06 Tue

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