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Date Posted: 13:23:57 08/20/01 Mon
Author: sarah
Subject: Re: Do most boys value sex over love
In reply to: anon 's message, "Re: Do most boys value sex over love" on 11:34:57 08/19/01 Sun

hiyas,
in fact tim, i thought you expressed yourself very well and i think i agree with you. I hate to be a traitor to my gender and all but i reckon if boys are obsessed with sex and hense neglect the more finer feelings of love, friendship, trust and monogamy, then girls are partly to blame.

as a girl i am the first to admit that i use my sexuality to get what i want, and b'jesus it works every single fucking time. whether its because i want a refund on a purchase but dont have a receipt, or if i want the last bite of the doughnut, i just look longingly at the poor manipulated sod and bingo, 'ok whatever you want oh princess'. EVERY TIME. so im not going to winge about boys being obsessed with sex because this is the sentiment i directly encourage. i think i would be a hypocrite to say that this is wrong, since i do so well out of the fact that many blokes would like to bed me.
going back to the previous argument, i think that girls see their lives in terms of domestic relationships. also i have found that girls are the more sociable sex (ie, talking on the phone for hours, gossiping their arses off, bitch fights...) and so RELATIONSHIPS are where it's at baby. i tend to believe that boys are more likely to prioritise sex over love because
a) they are chargedfull of strong hormones which gives them boners just thinking about the 'S' word.
and
b) maybe they dont have the imagination (read sentimentality and general fantasy nonsese) that girls are taught to have.
girls in short are told to 'wait for mr right' who will ride you off into the sunset, buy you milk tray (:-p), walk you up the aisle, then make passionate love to you in a four poster bed in Barbados WITH lashings of foreplay. this is to be plain, BOLLOCKS and also to me a very dull and stereotyped image of love. then again, lashings of foreplay might be nice.....

so, in a nutshell, boys probably do find sex more appealing but girls encourage this with their evil manipulations, short skirts, stockings, lolipops, Gossard etc. in fact i would go on to say that i would be upset if a boy didnt look at me with lust in his eyes. love comes later as its not about manipulation. i cant make anyone fall in love with me but one day i hope someone will.please god.

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