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Date Posted: 21:20:30 05/07/03 Wed
I've been going though hard times in my life lately, well I guess compared to most people's life it is just drama. I have been with my boyfriend for two years now, at points we get very frustrated with each other. I get mad at the fact he is unable to contact me or even tries anymore he has no motavation to reach me, yet he says he cares for me. At points I feel as if I am living a lie, a sham in my life. I do care about him and have never had feelings about anyone else in my life like the way I care about him, but it is so upsetting when someone you care about so much in your life cannot sacrafice for you, or compromise the things you most need in life. I try my best, and my friends agree I don't deserve this, but I want to wait, I want to be patient, because as you all know love is patient, love is kind, love is the reason the world survives...haha what a cliche! Anyways apart from that I just want to spread out my problems a little to see what should I do? I am confused...I know this isn't a Dear Abby site or anything, but I know the people on this forum and trust them dearly and value their opionon highly. So in short terms I love my boyfriend yet he makes very stupid desicions what should I do? When he tells me he wants to drink, I become very upset (expecially since he is underage), or when he hangs out with his friends that smoke pot, I beg and plead for him not to drink or be around with those type of people, but what can I do? I can't stop him, it is his life and he doesn't see my side of things, we are both stubborn people. Yet I can tell that I let him do what he pleases while I stand in the corner crying. I know I can't change him, that you can't change people, but you can help them grow, but it seems he has stopped growing or maybe he is growing in a way that is not to my liking, I just confused and I don't want to become bitter or angry.
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