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Subject: okay....... Author: Kimmy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 00:10:25 11/01/02 Fri In reply to: Shannie 's message, "Oh Kimmy, I tell ya...." on 23:49:13 10/31/02 Thu I totally agree with you, we all look like a bunch of petty, childish broads! No I have not forgotten my equally offensive remarks to you either. They are all shameful. I do understand what you are saying. Enough is enough. They are hurtful, spiteful comments meant to draw blood. I will be honest, at times they do hurt, even though I haven't ever met you in real life and probably never will. I don't know you from Adam. I do know and have grown very close to Pam and alot of others, as I'm sure you have. Does that mean that we aren't friends, whether we have met in real life or not? I say, that my online friends are just as important to me as the ones in real life. Some people don't see it that way, that is their right. I do care what happens to them and what goes on in their lives anyway. Don't you? As for your posting about your painting your house, I was being honest when I said I liked the color, I do. I wasn't being wishy washy by commenting in that thread. I wasn't being some kind of liar, trying to get on your good side. Just make a comment as the others did. I know what you mean about being scared to try new things, I have felt that way too. I'm not wishy washy Lisa, not to my way of thinking, just somethings I get mad about, then blow off about and then move on. Some things it isn't that easy for me to get over. If that is what you call wishy washy (which I think everyone can be to a degree)then I guess I am. Yeah, we could throw mud until we are blue in the face, but it won't change anything. Feelings have been hurt, some things said that it is totally up to the person that they have offended to get past or forgive. It is not for me to judge you on why you post to Ari the way you do, it was something I had wondered about and you answered my question. I just choose to blow right on by his posts when I don't understand them. There are alot of them from others I don't understand or don't interest me, that is the joy of the internet, read what you want to, find out about things you wanted to learn about and maybe, just maybe, make a few good friends. Kim [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Ari Author: Pam [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:36:08 11/01/02 Fri I don't understand why Ari should be required to state his reasons for making a post. How was his question any different than asking if women prefer hairy chests or smooth chests (which was asked by someone else once), no one jumped on them and asked why in the hell they were asking THAT. Ari's question was a legitimate one, that no one would have blinked at if anyone else had posted it. In fact,there was a thread somewhere (might have been on DP) about what type of body parts turned people on, and the subject of rough vs smooth hands came up in it. But just because it was ARI this time, it was immediately fair game for the potshots.