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Subject: Way, WAY too much!

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Date Posted: 23:55:14 11/01/02 Fri
In reply to: KatherineJ 's message, "What to do when your man isn't doing it right" on 14:48:13 11/01/02 Fri

Sorry KJ, honestly, but it sounds like you're being incredibly demanding. Maybe those ARE real problems with him, but I guarantee that if I had dated a guy for a couple of months and he started handing me "lists of things to do to prove you're worthy of me", I'd tell him to take a hike. He's survived this long without you giving him graphs and pie charts of recommended procedures, and while his lifestyle may not be to your liking, it's served him well 'til now.

I think the issues are too big to get around, and you're both going to end up hating each other before it's over. He's never going to have enough drive and initiative to satisfy you, which will lead to you being nothing but a domineering nag, which is NOT where you want to end up.

I'm not trying to offend you, from the outside looking in, you're both in a no-win situation.

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Author: Shannie [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 01:36:58 11/02/02 Sat Pam did you get my PM? I sent it a long time ago. I ask because I think there's something screwy about my PM thingy.