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Subject: Re: FINALLLY


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Chloe
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Date Posted: Wed, Feb 22 2012, 15:30:39
In reply to: tlcme 's message, "Re: FINALLLY" on Wed, Feb 22 2012, 10:23:33

tlcme,
I know how you feel about the learning process and letting a lot of things roll off. Before my recovery process, I was so sensitive and fought with people all the time. I am so much calmer. I was a real mess and everyone pushed my buttons all the time. I thought that it was all about them but really it was me. I finally learned to be humble but it wss very difficult and I had to learn the hard way. Hopefully it won't take you as long as me :) When I look back, I wish I wouldn't have fought with the answer all the time which was to just "get sober" . It has made the difference in my life and work. I am not the same person I was back then. I sometimes actually like myself :)

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