VoyForums
[ Show ]
Support VoyForums
[ Shrink ]
VoyForums Announcement: Programming and providing support for this service has been a labor of love since 1997. We are one of the few services online who values our users' privacy, and have never sold your information. We have even fought hard to defend your privacy in legal cases; however, we've done it with almost no financial support -- paying out of pocket to continue providing the service. Due to the issues imposed on us by advertisers, we also stopped hosting most ads on the forums many years ago. We hope you appreciate our efforts.

Show your support by donating any amount. (Note: We are still technically a for-profit company, so your contribution is not tax-deductible.) PayPal Acct: Feedback:

Donate to VoyForums (PayPal):

[ Login ] [ Contact Forum Admin ] [ Main index ] [ Post a new message ] [ Search | Check update time | Archives: 1, 2, [3], 4, 5, 6, 7 ]

[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

Date Posted: 15:52:00 04/20/03 Sun
Author: SavCal
Subject: Move thousands of miles away! lol
In reply to: Skye 's message, "How do you handle in-law issues?" on 15:13:10 04/17/03 Thu

Seriously though ... I think a small part of the reason I don't have IL problems is because they live in Connecticut adn I live in Arizona!

However, we never really had any problems when we lived closer either.

I don't think you're aunt/uncle's solution is far off. In order to have the support of your spouse, that spouse has to know what's going on and what it was that offended you, what the problem is etc. Its not tattling. Its informing. It would be a lot worse, IMO, for your uncle to just remain pissed at his MIL and your aunt not know what's going on. Or for him to make a big stink out of something that his wife doesn't even know about. And, by telling her before he makes a stink, she may be able to give him information that alleviates the problem without a stink.

Anyhoo .. thats my cheap two cents for today.

Hollie

[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

Replies:

[ Contact Forum Admin ]

Forum timezone: GMT-8
VF Version: 3.00b, ConfDB:
Before posting please read our privacy policy.
VoyForums(tm) is a Free Service from Voyager Info-Systems.
Copyright © 1998-2019 Voyager Info-Systems. All Rights Reserved.