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Date Posted: 17:16:51 03/29/03 Sat
Author: Blondie
Subject: Ireland (m)
In reply to: Ireland~~ 's message, "Alright, I need advice here because Im pissed off right now." on 16:51:48 03/29/03 Sat

Hum, okay. If your friend knew that you wouldn't be able to do all the "things" that you are suppose to do as a MOH and she still said it was okay. Then pooh on her and her family. If I were you I would say, "M, I love you dearly and I want your wedding to be the best thing ever. I absolutely cannot complete the tasks that are seemingly the MOA responsiblity. Basically, in short, I pretty much will be there for your party and the wedding. If you think that my lask of participation doesn't warrant the position of MOA, I completely understand. I would still like to be your MOA without the tasks that are assigned to me. If that is not possible I will would love to be in the wedding and/or would be glad to show up to wish you well if you still don't wish to have me participate in a active role."

Basically, give her an out. See what she does. She may take it or not. Eitherway you are safe because she knows where you stand!
I am in the wedding of a close friend from college and when I offered my help she replied, "Uh, you are a full-time working single mom. And you want to help me? Nah just show up pretty and buy me something fabulous!" LOL.
Hugs,
Blondie

P.S. There is such a thing as Bridezilla! My sister was one. She wanted me to help her plan her blessed day and I was stationed in Texas, while she was in Alabama. I was deployed to the field most of that summer....like I can stuff goody bags from the field. NOT! LOL

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