「知啦」（2005/12/08） -- 舒展超之大玩派

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Subject: 「知啦」（2005/12/08）

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舒展超

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Date Posted: 13:48:34 12/08/05 Thu

經驗告訴我，用手機短訊與人交談，十分容易生出不必要的誤會。
例如，你千辛萬苦、長篇大論地，在手機上「篤」個四、五十字，把一個重要消息告訴一位朋友，順便苦口婆心地提點他兩句。對方收到之後，只回覆你：「知啦」。
注意，是「知啦」，不是「知啦。」。只冷冷的兩個字，沒有標點，沒有語氣，也沒有甚麼感情；不，應該說，語氣和感情方面留給閣下去自由想像。
人往往會先往壞的方面想。也陶o個「知啦」，全句是「我一早已知道啦，駛乜你講喎，多事」，或者是「知道晒啦！你又唔早啲講，一日都係你」，甚至是「知道啦，你講過幾次喇，好煩呀你」……反正，彷彿都是你的錯。如此想的話，輕則自討沒趣、心情下滑，搞到自己鬱鬱不歡；重則大動肝火、惱羞成怒，於是惡言回覆，一場短訊大戰由此而起！
若你EQ較高，向好那方面想，那麼這個「知啦」後面大可以加上省略號，變成「知啦……」；即是說，對方已接受你的好心提醒，而且也在認真深思反省。
當然，最大可能是對方此刻正在忙碌，無瑕長篇回覆答謝，只能短短的回你一句「知啦」，其他盡在不言中。

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