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Subject: Re: Question 6


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Colleen
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Date Posted: 17:07:20 12/10/03 Wed
In reply to: Angelique Hrycko 's message, "Question 6" on 06:07:17 12/10/03 Wed

>Barbara Biesecker’s response compared to my feelings
>in question number 5. When one sibling finds out that
>he or she had a positive result, and the other sibling
>tested negative, the affected sibling could maybe be
>relieved that their brother or sister to whom they are
>very close to does not have to suffer with this
>illness. It is extremely hard to watch someone you
>love go through lots of pain and treatment, and maybe
>the affected sibling feels that he or she could handle
>it better than their brother or sister. Being the
>sibling with the negative result can often result in
>guilt feelings. That sibling will often feel like it
>is their fault that the other sibling was affected and
>not them, and will constantly worry about the affected
>sibling. This is exactly how Sherry and Lani’s
>relationship went once Sherry was diagnosed. Sherry
>took this information and decided to learn more about
>and teach other about it. She felt that having a
>first-hand experience she would really be able to make
>it clear to others. Lani feels guilt and does not
>know what to do to help Sherry. It is hard for her to
>cope.

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Re: Question 6( this is the real reply)Colleen17:35:07 12/10/03 Wed



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