Subject:  Re: What is the "inner comforter"? |
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Kim
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Date Posted: 07:10:37 03/15/01 Thu
In reply to:
Relo from StL
's message, "What is the "inner comforter"?" on 06:10:31 03/15/01 Thu
>Which brings us around to what started this thread.
>Why are we seeing so much evil from children these
>days (i.e. shootings in school)? Parents have failed
>to train these children to choose good. They have
>failed to love them as God intended.
Relo,
I beg to differ, even GOOD parents, who have thaught their kids right from wrong have the same problem. Are you saying that EVERY child who kills someone, their parents didn't teach them good enough? I think not. Kids at that age, do what they want to do, it doesn't matter how their folks brought them up. They make there own choices. If your son flew off the handle tomorrow and shot up some old man...who's to blame...you, or your child? You can love them, and cuddle them, and teach them alot, take em to church, think ya got the best in the world, and one day, something snaps in that little head, and to say the parent is at fault everytime, is a copout. There is something wrong with the child, not always the parent or their parenting.
Those kids that shot up Columbine, their folks were good folks. They loved their kids, took em to church....even the parents of the dead kids they they were AOK people. Great parents....It's not there fault their kids killed. It's their problem, but not their fault. I will say SOMETIMES...and I mean sometimes, it is, but people like to place that blame on someone other than the child, and thats just wrong. Shit let's just let ALL the murders out, since they had a bad childhood, and their folks didn't raise them right. When does it stop being the parents fault Relo???????? When does the child take responsiblity for his/her own actions?
You could have the best parent in the world, did their very best, and have a kid that still kills someone.
Place blame where it belongs.
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