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Date Posted: 16:56:41 01/06/05 Thu
Author: tina
Subject: ex boyfriend

hi. Im having a really tough time right now with my ex. I still love him with all my heart, and i'm just really hurt that we broke up. we were dating for 1 yr 9 mon, and broke up back in september... i thought i was finally getting over him when he started dating another girl. they started dating on jan 1... the same day me and him started dating 2 years ago. the worst part is 4 days before he started dating her... we fooled around..and had sex...(the second time we have... the first time was also after we broke up). I love him so much and it hurts to see him with another girl. we decided that once i go back to college, we will cut off all communication with each other for awhile. I'm dreading that so much. this is my first real heartbreak, my first love... and i know i need to get over him but i can't yet. i really thought that he was the one i would marry. and i still feel that way... i still feel like we're soul mates and ment to be together. sometimes he claims that he doesnt have feelings for me at all besides friendship...then he says stuff like...we need to stop talking because he's getting confused... that like sometimes he still feels love for me. I feel like my whole world has crumbled around me and i dont know what to do about it.

sorry, this seems more like a vent then an actually advice thing. I"m just wondering... am I an idiot for still loving him after this long? after all the hurt I've been through because of the breakup? do you think I have any chance with him at all in the future? or should i just give up? (he says that in the far future there could be a chance for us). how can i get over him? thanks for any help you can give

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