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Subject: Re: 粗口問題


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一位家長
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Date Posted: 11:59:32 04/28/04 Wed
In reply to: 疑問 's message, "粗口問題" on 18:22:25 04/26/04 Mon
 公仔佬, 我認為為考慮別人而說粗口的情況也有存在的, 有人(特別是年青人)會為了溶入友儕的小圈子和得到他們的認同而刻意用粗口, 希望這只是他們成長階段的一個小插曲吧!
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[> [> Subject: Re: agree


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手非長
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Date Posted: 12:25:54 04/28/04 Wed
>公仔佬, 我認為為考慮別人而說粗口的情況也有存在的,
>有人(特別是年青人)會為了溶入友儕的小圈子和得到他們的認?>P而刻意用粗口, 希望這只是他們成長階段的一個小插曲吧!


唔止，其實有時粗口可是表達個人情緒的一種語句，　特別一個人是十分憤怒的時候．間中的一句半句雖然不好，卻是可以體諒的,起碼比死谷埋在心好．而且有時個人的成長環境和家教不同，自小養成的習慣是很難一下子根治的.　

[> [> Subject: 多謝指教


Author:
公仔佬
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Date Posted: 12:35:11 04/28/04 Wed
我把對「有人(特別是年青人)會為了溶入友儕的小圈子和得到他們的認同而刻意用粗口」的情形歸入：
1. 服從別人：因為他是受朋輩影響而說粗口。
或是
2. 考慮自我：因為他怕自己在社交生活上有損失。

而考慮別人是「易地而處」的人生觀，正所謂「己所不欲，勿施於人」，即不希望別人受到傷害、受到不平等對待的人生觀。而我校希望同學能躬行實踐的也是這一套。因此，學校希望同學能自律而不喜用嚴懲作為手段的理念也在此。
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