It was certainly not the level of connection we hope John to find. I think the level of affection John has for Percy is like you or I would feel for that really nice guy we used to date but it just didn't work out. Good luck to him, wish him well but no heartbreak. It's worth a pint of B&Js and a bit of wistfulness but it's okay that it's over. -- LJG Discussion board

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Date Posted: 07:48:43 10/24/07 Wed
Author: kgp
Subject: It was certainly not the level of connection we hope John to find. I think the level of affection John has for Percy is like you or I would feel for that really nice guy we used to date but it just didn't work out. Good luck to him, wish him well but no heartbreak. It's worth a pint of B&Js and a bit of wistfulness but it's okay that it's over.
In reply to: pamelalass 's message, "I know he says (or reflects to himself) right here that he loves Percy, but it just feels so tepid. I never felt that he was so connected to Percy that he would have been utterly bereft without him, even when their physical passion was quite fresh and strong. There was never that phenomenon of owning, and being owned." on 07:30:36 10/24/07 Wed

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And remember, the two sides of a coin. With Jaime, John has the kind of love which is unrequited and unreturned. With Percy, he has a physical and emotional relationship in which John is known and understood for who he is. Burning passion, no. But affection and caring- this is a sort of love too. (NT) -- Oleander, 10:40:15 10/24/07 Wed
- Weel, he's known and understood for who he is in some ways, but Percy does really miss the point on some of the essential John - - the honor, duty, sacrifice pieces of his character. I guess I am willing to accept the love they share as such - - a sort of love - - and in real life we have to accept these kinds of omissions from our lovers/mates all the time, but in the context of these books and their magnificent exploration of soul-possessing love, it is certainly second-rate! (NT) -- pamelalass, 14:28:27 10/24/07 Wed

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