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A finger is not a finger is not a finger.

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Jessie

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Date Posted: 03:01:43 08/27/04 Fri
In reply to: Suz 's message, "Try this one on for size....(no pun intended)" on 09:33:59 08/24/04 Tue

I like your idea of having a course with only attractive people. Sounds great! Where do I sign up and list my preferences? Okay, so I'm kidding (mostly), but honestly--- why should you have a do-date with someone you are not attracted to? Your "resistance" in that case may simply be a lack of desire--- how do you achieve the ultimate goal of admitting, persuining, and attaining your desire if you are too busy going after what you don't desire? I think it is more powerful to say "No" to what we don't want rather than be "nice" and say yes. By ignoring your body's response of repulsion and having the date anyway, you are creating a greater disconnect between your mind and your body--- rather than uniting the two. My truth is that I don't want to have a do-date with anyone I am not at least somewhat attracted to--- sure, it means I have fewer dates--- but the ones that I do have are incredible. It's the whole quality over quantity thing. I simply want to work on having the courage to speak and then fulfill my desires--- if I can play a sexy dominatrix with a gorgeous woman, why would I want to focus my time getting over my "resistance" to a man with back hair? A finger is not a finger is not a finger. Some fingers know how to work my pussy. Others don't. Haven't we all been there?

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Replies:

Subject	Author	Date
I've had that viewpoint	Robert	09:30:05 08/27/04 Fri

Lovely fingers	Suz	11:10:12 08/27/04 Fri

My Desire	Becca	13:02:17 09/05/04 Sun