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Date Posted: 19:00:09 05/30/07 Wed
Author: Sandy
Author Host/IP: 75-138-107-084.dhcp.hckr.nc.charter.com / 75.138.107.84
Subject: Re: He is being honest, you be honest too.
In reply to: Rhonda K 's message, "He is being honest, you be honest too." on 17:14:47 05/30/07 Wed

Hey Rhonda,

Thanks.

You're right... I do appreciate his honesty. The funny thing is that all this stuff my younger brother is telling me about him to slam him... Joe has told me himself without me even asking him.

He's been completely upfront about all of it. He says he wishes he had met someone like me before he started going to the bars cause now he is worried that Michael (my brother) will think he isn't good enough. He said he knew those few girls wouldn't be anything more than just hook-ups but he didn't have anything else going on and the last ten years before his wife died they almost never had sex because she was sick all the time. He was worried about asking me out because he said he thought I probably thought he was a piece of shit for going to bars and hooking up with those women. I told him that I am not a saint myself and that I'm not so naive that I don't know that single guys act that way...as well as many single women.

He has no plans to hang out at the bar while he's seeing me and he's been honest about everything so it's funny when Michael starts telling me stuff that I already know.

I told him my concerns and told him I want to take things slow...so we'll see.

Thanks again.

Hugs,
Sandy

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