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Date Posted: 19:42:54 12/11/06 Mon
Author: Sandy
Author Host/IP: 66-190-150-089.dhcp.hckr.nc.charter.com / 66.190.150.89
Subject: You do know
In reply to: Mikki 's message, "Re: Thanks guys... (long)" on 19:23:01 12/11/06 Mon

I'm sure you know who it is. And you're right. A lot of people work and keep themselves up and go to school at night. He crashed and burned during our time together and afterwards and ended up at home living off the parents and asking their permission for everything. Give me a break. The rest of us have had our fair share of bad stuff but we're paying our own way and taking care of our own lives.

I felt horrible at the end of our relationship. I can't remember when I've been more unhappy in my life. All the times I begged and pleaded for him to get help and to change, but nothing ever changed and every promise made to me was just words and they were so easily broken.

I know he had some major issues to deal with but so did I. I was in the midst of the 4th custody battle that the ex put me through. I had gone through 10 years of court battles with Matt's dad and it was still ongoing. I had pressure and stress too but I didn't take it out on him and make his life hell and I didn't end up back living with my mother and asking her permission to breathe.

Whatever... I guess I'm lucky his mommy said he couldn't visit.

Thanks,
Hugs,
Sandy

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  • oh..and get this -- Sandy, 20:14:56 12/11/06 Mon
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