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Date Posted: 20:30:58 09/24/06 Sun
Author: Rhonda K
Author Host/IP: 35conn92.rupert.net / 209.145.122.92
Subject: Re: Question ?
In reply to: Dave 's message, "Question ?" on 16:25:59 09/22/06 Fri

Well, I know for me, I don't mind Lorne reading the page, especially if I am going through a really rough time. But then again, he has only done that a few times, to find out just how bad things are for me and to wrap his head around it. But in the past several years he has only done it after letting me know he was going to do that...and once, I felt a bit scared of what he would think about me...but he said it helped him alot...

For me and him, we have learned so much about my depression over the past 4 years since having Dayel...that to help me cope with being a mom...we really needed to talk about EVERYTHING...sometimes that is scary for us...but it needs to be done. It is harder for us if we both clam up at the same time and say nothing..we both have lingering feelings of abandonment...and he has fears of me finding someone who understands my needs more...but I don't think that can ever happen...a mate who keeps wanting to learn more and still want to live with me...is a keeper...

But, when they do it behind your back...in hopes of finding "what?"....need to realize that this is a safe haven for us, and it is not to cheat, lie or deceive...but to vent, reach out and help!

I hope she understands that...

Hugs honey..take care of you...MUH MUH MUH

Rhonda

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