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Date Posted: 12:22:32 06/26/06 Mon
Author: Sandy
Author Host/IP: 24-158-61-135.static.hckr.nc.charter.com / 24.158.61.135
Subject: It's just frustrating
In reply to: Dave 's message, "Re: Well.... just as I expected..." on 14:20:19 06/25/06 Sun

Because you can never tell anyone anything and no one can ever tell us anything. But everyone knew that Sherry was making a big mistake. We KNEW she'd hate having all these kids around all the time because she started raising kids at age 23 when she married her first husband and he had a 2 year old. Then she had 2 of her own and her son got married one week before she did and moved out. All I had heard was how sick she was of having to deal with kids over at her house all the time and how she couldn't wait to have to place to herself. So when she started dating this guy I tried to remind her tactfully how many times she had complained about all her son's friends (which amounted to his girlfriend, my son which is her nephew, and our cousins son) being at her house every weekend. Well, when they were there they stayed back in Jason's end of the house and didn't really bother her. I tried to remind her that if just having kids in the house bothered her so much, she'd be making a mistake to marry someone who has custody of a 4 year old and has a 14 & 15 year old that comes over every other weekend. I told her she wouldn't get the peace and quiet she says she's looking for and they wouldn't stay back in the other room like her own son and his friends did because these kids would be there to spend time with their father. EVERYONE tried to tell her and we knew she'd be sick of it and would be complaining nonstop about it. Well, she thought we were all just being jerks even though we tried to be tactful. We were looking out for her best interest because we KNOW HOW SHE IS so well. And here it is...they've been married less than 2 months and she's complaining to anyone who will listen. She knows she's made a mistake but it's going to be hard to get out of if that's what she decides to do. She's going to hate to hurt Greg. And he moved into her house so she can't just leave because the house is hers. It's paid for. She'd basically have to tell him to find a place to go with his kids. So I don't know what she'll do at this point. Probably she'll spend the next few years being miserable and fussing and fighting and complaining to everyone around. Another thing is that with her religion, you can't just get a divorce for any other reason than if someone cheats on you. The church won't recognize any other reason and she could get disfellowshipped. She's really stepped in it now so even though I hate it for her... we tried to tell her and I don't want to have to be hearing about it all the time because I have enough troubles. I know that sounds selfish but Sherry is the type of person who will just wear you out discussing her problems but she's never available to listen to what you have to say when you have a problem.

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